more for mom book review

Book Review: More for Mom by Kristin Funston

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I enjoy reading books that flow like a comfortable conversation with a good friend over a cup of tea. Real, open, and leaving me challenged and encouraged when I leave that quiet and all-too-brief time in a place of friendship. I found “More for Mom” to be one of those conversational reads.

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“More for Mom” reads like a cheerful greeting filled with upbeat wisdom for women (especially moms). Kristin weaves her message of helping moms find more out of life from a solid foundation of scripture and a Christian worldview. That is crucial for women in a culture that is very much all about “me” and “self”. Let’s face it, social media has brought us together in powerful ways; but I was thinking while reading this book that our way of living today has the same potential to isolate people, and in this case, women, from real supportive relationships. Kristin’s timely thoughts are shared from a place of “we’re in this together” vs. saying that she has arrived at the pinnacle of All-Figured-Out way ahead of me as I muddle my way along. She shares from a place of walking with women (and isn’t that what we all should try to do for one another? How many of us have true mentoring relationships to lean on and invest into?).

Early in the book I liked this excerpt:

Ultimately, it boils down to the fact that God, as our Creator, is the One who brings us happiness and joy — both external and internal. And the only way we can get to Him is through His holy Son, Jesus.

My girls are grown but I still wrestle with many of the same challenges in my walk, in my work, and in the pursuit of dreams God has placed in my heart. My happiness and joy come from my relationship with God through his son, Jesus. I appreciate the suggestions Kristin gives about managing priorities, praying over to-do lists, and offering it all to God. It’s about embracing our life right now without every detail needing to be perfect. I like that.

“Do what works best, or do what merely works. Jesus will work out the rest.”

Kristin doesn’t harp on the how-to’s and she doesn’t shy away from direct application of truth. She gives specific helps on ways to draw closer to Christ in the daily burdens of life without ridiculous expectations for perfection. I mean, let’s be real (she is). I’m an introvert at heart and love (need) quiet to recharge. Jesus took time for quiet, too, but as this author writes, Jesus treated people as inclusions, not interruptions. “Jesus reminds us this (people) is why He and we are here.” Point taken by this quiet-craver.

Women need to be reminded that “His wholeness and His holiness take the place of ours. Because of this salvation of ours, our lives are whole and complete, holy and set apart from the world we live in. This life — because of Jesus — doesn’t need more from moms. It gives more for moms.”

Wondering what living this life with Jesus means? Kristin talks about that beautifully, and in particular at the very end. More for Mom will help women discover how our wholeness and holiness both come through Jesus Christ.

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I’m a wife, mom, and stage 4 colon cancer survivor who has been NED (“no evidence of disease”) since 2013. I’m happy when I’m enjoying coffee, reading, writing, and spending time with my family. I’m really grateful for wellness support strategies and good books that support living abundantly in the “new normal”.

Hanging in.

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A few days ago I walked in our woods looking for my deer friends. They don’t think of me as their friend so it’s clearly a one-sided struggle to find them. Leaves crunched loudly under my bare feet. A squirrel hurled acorn bombs and screeched from the branches above. I didn’t see the deer (the picture above is from another morning when for some reason they humored my attempts to capture their photo) but the walk was perfect.

A leaf twirled in front of me suspended by a cobweb. On its way to the ground it had been caught by one single string and twirled there between heaven and earth.

How long is God’s arm? Can he catch a leaf as it plummets towards earth? Can he save me, and you, from the awful challenges we sometimes face? Of course he can. But what if he doesn’t spare us from pain on this earth?

My mom gave me a book by Elisabeth Elliott titled, “Keep a Quiet Heart” (Revell, Grand Rapids, Michigan, 1995). Today’s reading was titled “How Long is God’s Arm?” She writes on page 55, “How do we reconcile God’s promises for protection with the fact that so many evil things happen in our lives? Can we believe God for protection?”

Can we believe Him when we’re holding on by a string?

Here is more from Elliott’s writing: “We must be careful to interpret Scripture with Scripture, and if we examine the record we find that God did not by any means always protect His people from harm. He has absolute power to keep us safe, both physically and spiritually, but His engineering of the universe made room for man’s freedom to choose – that is, freedom to will to obey or to disobey Him. This is a deep mystery. Man’s disobedience brought evil into the world, and all of us are subject to it. God does not cancel out its effects, even for His choicest servants (John the Baptist, Stephen, those nameless victims of Hebrews 11:35-57, for example). Nevertheless, we have the promises. Romans 8:35-39 is one of my most reread passages. I believe we can rest assured that we are invulnerable so long as God does not give permission for us to be hurt. If He gives that permission, He will not leave us alone. He goes with us through the valley, the deep water, the furnace. He will never, absolutely never, leave us or forsake us.”

The leaf was in a desperate and lonely spot for certain. But there was beauty in its predicament. A story to tell. There is beauty in your challenges, and mine, too. Jesus’ great love and strong arms keep us safely and securely in place.

Hang in there, friend. God is going to do something beautiful.

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