more for mom book review

Book Review: More for Mom by Kristin Funston

Books

I enjoy reading books that flow like a comfortable conversation with a good friend over a cup of tea. Real, open, and leaving me challenged and encouraged when I leave that quiet and all-too-brief time in a place of friendship. I found “More for Mom” to be one of those conversational reads.

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“More for Mom” reads like a cheerful greeting filled with upbeat wisdom for women (especially moms). Kristin weaves her message of helping moms find more out of life from a solid foundation of scripture and a Christian worldview. That is crucial for women in a culture that is very much all about “me” and “self”. Let’s face it, social media has brought us together in powerful ways; but I was thinking while reading this book that our way of living today has the same potential to isolate people, and in this case, women, from real supportive relationships. Kristin’s timely thoughts are shared from a place of “we’re in this together” vs. saying that she has arrived at the pinnacle of All-Figured-Out way ahead of me as I muddle my way along. She shares from a place of walking with women (and isn’t that what we all should try to do for one another? How many of us have true mentoring relationships to lean on and invest into?).

Early in the book I liked this excerpt:

Ultimately, it boils down to the fact that God, as our Creator, is the One who brings us happiness and joy — both external and internal. And the only way we can get to Him is through His holy Son, Jesus.

My girls are grown but I still wrestle with many of the same challenges in my walk, in my work, and in the pursuit of dreams God has placed in my heart. My happiness and joy come from my relationship with God through his son, Jesus. I appreciate the suggestions Kristin gives about managing priorities, praying over to-do lists, and offering it all to God. It’s about embracing our life right now without every detail needing to be perfect. I like that.

“Do what works best, or do what merely works. Jesus will work out the rest.”

Kristin doesn’t harp on the how-to’s and she doesn’t shy away from direct application of truth. She gives specific helps on ways to draw closer to Christ in the daily burdens of life without ridiculous expectations for perfection. I mean, let’s be real (she is). I’m an introvert at heart and love (need) quiet to recharge. Jesus took time for quiet, too, but as this author writes, Jesus treated people as inclusions, not interruptions. “Jesus reminds us this (people) is why He and we are here.” Point taken by this quiet-craver.

Women need to be reminded that “His wholeness and His holiness take the place of ours. Because of this salvation of ours, our lives are whole and complete, holy and set apart from the world we live in. This life — because of Jesus — doesn’t need more from moms. It gives more for moms.”

Wondering what living this life with Jesus means? Kristin talks about that beautifully, and in particular at the very end. More for Mom will help women discover how our wholeness and holiness both come through Jesus Christ.

PS: I’m giving away one copy of “More for Mom”! If you’d like to be in the drawing here’s what to do: 1) Like my Cancer Smarts Facebook page; 2) Like my post about this review; 3) Comment “Done!” on the FB post.

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I’m a wife, mom, and stage 4 colon cancer survivor who has been NED (“no evidence of disease”) since 2013. I’m happy when I’m enjoying coffee, reading, writing, and spending time with my family. I’m really grateful for wellness support strategies and good books that support living abundantly in the “new normal”.

cancer smarts meeting in the meadow

Weekly Meadow Meeting: March 31, 2019

Encouragement, Weekly Roundup

The Cancer Smarts Weekly Meadow Meeting is all about the places I’ve found encouragement to live abundantly. Let’s get to this week’s agenda.

Quick Quotes

  1. “If anything becomes more fundamental than God to your happiness, meaning in life, identity, then it is an idol.” —Tim Keller
  2. “If we have everything else in the world without Christ, we’re impoverished. If we have nothing else in the world but Christ, we’re rich. In the end, Christ is all that matters.” – Randy Alcorn www.epm.org/facetoface

Surprise of a Lifetime

Army SSG Rob Cesternino pulls off the surprise of a lifetime when he reunites with his son Luca at Taekwondo practice after a 10-month deployment. I kinda think this is how my response will be someday when I see my heavenly father. Sheer love+relief+joy+tears+thanksgiving+gratitude.

BibleGateway Verse for Today:

“But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all.” Isaiah 53:5-6

Wellness Wisdom and Nutrition News:

VIDEO: Should Colon Cancer Survivors Change their Diets?

Only a minority of colon cancer victims change their diet after diagnosis (http://1.usa.gov/1o0QuNS). Of the millions diagnosed with cancer every year, as many as 90 to 95% of cancers may be caused by lifestyle factors. Check out this video article from Nutrition Facts on How to Win the War on Cancer: https://nutritionfacts.org/video/how-to-win-the-war-on-cancer/?fbclid=IwAR0dcMuluuNjjKZphZoG4UeSOqAFbnTz_HvGOVqTUFaBZ6j1cHfupYGK-Iw

VIDEO: New interview with 40-year vegan MD Joel Kahn by Chris Wark

Dr. Kahn is a cardiologist in Detroit, Michigan. He has treated thousands of acute heart attacks during his career and he is confident that plant-based nutrition is the most powerful source of preventative medicine on the planet. In this interview they discuss low-carb keto diets, legumes and lectins, optimal cholesterol levels, blood markers and tests you can take to detect heart disease, and so much more. If you care about preventing or reversing our #1 killer disease, definitely watch this interview with Dr. Joel Kahn and Chris Wark!

SHOW NOTES FROM THIS VIDEO INTERVIEW
-Hospital food promotes disease [01:53]
-Dr. Kahn’s plant-based physician origin story [04:04]
-Nutritional medicine pioneers that influenced Dr. Kahn [07:00]
-What you need to know about cholesterol [17:17]
-How the dairy industry confused the science on saturated fat and cholesterol [19:45]
-Lower than average LDL cholesterol drops heart disease risk by 90% [22:00]
-What is Lifestyle Medicine? [30:00]
-Avoiding fad diets (like the keto diet) [33:03]
-Low carb diets increase death [37:00]
-Plant-based vs low carb for diabetes [40:20]
-Should we avoid legumes and lectins? [42:32]
-The relationship between cancer and heart disease [50:00]
-Early warning signs of heart disease [54:11]
-The earlobe crease connection to heart disease [54:50]
-Optimal total cholesterol is under 150 [57:15]
-Three blood markers that indicate heart disease [59:42]
-The coronary artery calcium scan [01:02:00]
-Ideal blood levels of c-reactive protein, homocysteine, and lipoprotein(a) [01:05:00]

Weekly Photo Journal:

oswald chambers quotes about faith faith is not intellectual understanding faith is a deliberate commitment to the person of Jesus Christ
Daily Devotionals by Oswald Chambers are available at www.utmost.org

This week I spent time with my mom and sister sharing personal testimonies and encouragement from Psalm 23 at a retirees’ luncheon in Western New York. I took a drive in the hills the day before and captured this image of a lonely country road lined with trees that look dull and grey. In reality they are getting ready to burst with life! The winding road reminds me of faith, perhaps. Who are you choosing to trust in today for the unknown future?


cancer survivor essential oils cbd oil happy hormones after chemo and radiationI’m a wife, mom, and stage 4 colon cancer survivor who has been NED (“no evidence of disease”) since 2013. I’m happy when I’m enjoying coffee, reading, writing, and spending time with my family. I’m really grateful for wellness support strategies that work to support living abundantly in the “new normal”.

Weekly Meadow Meeting: March 22, 2019

Encouragement, Weekly Roundup

Quick takes this week from culture:

  1. The world needs Jesus.
  2. The world needs Jesus.
  3. The world needs Jesus.

I intended to collect news articles that have caught my attention this week. Between world concerns, health concerns, spiritual concerns, family concerns, and the fires of conflict that rage in the pursuit of personal freedom in this digital age, real and fulfilling life kinda evades capture.

Until we are captured by Christ and learn to live day by day in his generous and abundant freedom.

I’ve decided the Cancer Smarts Weekly Meadow Meeting will be all about the places I’ve found encouragement to live abundantly during the week. Let’s get to the agenda.

Local Light: Gigi’s Playhouse

Gigi’s Playhouse will open a Southern Tier chapter in May 2019. Binghamton’s Restaurant Week has partnered with Gigi’s Playhouse this week and proceeds are doing to support this wonderful project. Gigi’s Playhouse is an incredible community resource with programming to serve individuals with Down syndrome and their families. Learn more at https://gigisplayhouse.org/southern-tier-ny/

PS: Our daughter Karyn is in this video from Newschannel34 about Binghamton Restaurant Week and Gigi’s Playhouse. Heart happy!

Spotify Music List: Meet Me in the Meadow Listen in to songs from our last retreat weekend. Come on in from the battle. Put on the garment of praise and rest awhile in the meadow.

BibleGateway Verse for Today: [ The Armor of God ] Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. Ephesians 6:10-11

My Utmost for His Highest Devotional for March 22, 2019: The Burning Heart

“We need to learn this secret of the burning heart. Suddenly Jesus appears to us, the fires are kindled, we have wonderful visions; then we have to learn to keep the secret of the burning heart that will go through anything. It is the dull, bald, dreary, commonplace day, with commonplace duties and people, that kills the burning heart unless we have learned the secret of abiding in Jesus.” [ Read the Complete Text ]

Wellness Wisdom: Do you think gut bacteria can prevent or promote colorectal cancer? [ Check out this interview from Chris Beat Cancer ]

Here’s one last song included from “Meet Me in the Meadow”, Psalm 23 by Shane and Shane. It’s beautiful! As we head out of the meadow back to our path, I’d like to know, what has encouraged your journey this week?


cancer survivor essential oils cbd oil happy hormones after chemo and radiationI’m a wife, mom, and stage 4 colon cancer survivor who has been NED (“no evidence of disease”) since 2013. I’m happy when I’m enjoying coffee, reading, writing, and spending time with my family. I’m really grateful for wellness support strategies that work to support living abundantly in the “new normal”. By the way, if you are a praying person, would you keep me in prayer this coming week? I have the joy of preparing and sharing about my journey and the hope I have in Christ with some dear folks on Thursday. Bonus: My mom and sister will be sharing with me, again, and sis and I will be doing some music together. Fun!

Encouraging Words about Navigating the New Normal and Embracing Hope

Insider Connection – March 2019

Good Encouragement Helps

Spring appeared yesterday (hooray!). Today it is winning a well-played game of hide-and-seek behind jarring cold winds and snow flurries. The hope of warmer days ahead is real, though, and there are cheery chickadees at the bird feeder!

Encouragement through Song:

We are given our lives to offer them back to God and to worship Him. No one else deserves our praise! Listen to “Offering” by Paul Baloche.

Offering (by Paul Baloche)

Navigating the New Normal:

2019 will be the first year that I will not have a CT scan. I hit the five year colon cancer survivor mark in May 2018. I’ll have a follow up appointment with the oncologist this June for lab work. I’ve been thinking a lot about how God wants me to live the life He has given in my “new normal”. This year has been about being content. Grateful. Purposeful. Not perfect; content.

Here are a few of the things I’m currently enjoying in my daily routine to cultivate a healthy and contented new normal:

Amazing Grass Powdered Greens: I pick these greens up at my local Wegmans grocery store. You can also order them online. These greens taste good alone mixed in water but most mornings I will add a drop of lemon essential oil for extra support. At one time I juiced five pounds of carrots + six green apples + greens daily while supporting my body’s efforts to heal from cancer and treatment (twice). I don’t do carrot juice as often now, but powdered greens I use just about every day. Easy!

amazing greens after cancer nutrition during cancer

 

Turmeric Supplement: Tom and I both take Turmeric and use essential oils daily. Here is a turmeric supplement you can find in your local health food store or online:

turmeric supplement after cancer nutrition for cancer survivors

Got Oils?

If you don’t have oils yet, NOW is the time to get a starter set. Essential oils have given me hope as a woman put into menopause by chemo and radiation. I did not want medication to replace natural hormones. I had NO idea that Young Living products would support so many legitimate wellness goals in my life, until about two years ago!

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You’ll also get access to our members-only online community to learn how to use your oils and get lots of education and support. It’s been life changing for this cancer survivor!

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Devotional Resources to Embrace Hope:

I’m reading through a daily devotional that my sister gave me for Christmas. It is called “The Quiet Place” by Nancy Lehigh Demoss. The book is concise and I appreciate the author’s style and commitment and emphasis upon scripture. If you’re looking for a nice supplement to your personal Bible study time, this is one you may enjoy!

the quiet place nancy lehigh demoss devotional

Healing Strong:

healing strong

March is Colon Cancer Awareness month! My colon cancer crisis and healing journey included medical treatment (twice) and nutrition (the second time). Healing Strong is a registered 503(c)3 non-profit corporation whose mission is to connect, support, and educate individuals facing cancer and other diseases with holistic, evidence-based non-toxic therapies by equipping local community groups. This month you can get their free guide on “How Stage 3 And 4 Cancer Patients Are Healing From Cancer” by clicking here.

Blessings to you,

cancer survivor essential oils cbd oil happy hormones after chemo and radiationSharon O’Connor is a wife, mom, and stage 4 colon cancer survivor who has been NED (“no evidence of disease”) since 2013. She loves coffee, writing, and taking walks with her husband, Tom, and their adopted Pug-Maltese mix, Ace. Sharon is grateful for wellness support strategies that work to support living in the “new normal”. Her life verse is Proverbs 3:5-6. Do you have a life verse? Share it in a comment below!